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Introduction: Ah… mornings. That magical time when the snooze button becomes our sworn enemy, and we make our first questionable decision of the day. And let’s not forget the evening ritual of scrolling through social media, envying a cat’s online popularity, because, apparently, Mr. Whiskers leads a far more intriguing life than most of us. It’s an amusingly sad reflection on modern life, but what if I told you the secret to a positive day lies in how you bookend it? Yes, I’m talking about kicking off your day with a hefty dose of gratitude and tucking yourself in with a snug blanket of exactitude.
The Miracle Morning: Cultivating Gratitude.
Gratitude isn’t just for Thanksgiving. It’s the year-round, feel-good accessory that goes with everything. Starting your day with a gratitude mindset can transform your outlook, your interactions, and even your coffee spills into positive experiences.
First, let’s look at the definition of GRATITUDE: A feeling of appreciation and thankfulness for what one has, whether it be tangible items, experiences, or intangible elements like love and friendship. It is an acknowledgment of value independent of monetary worth, recognizing the positive aspects of life, and not taking them for granted. Gratitude involves focusing on the present and what makes it enriching, fostering a sense of well-being and contentment. By appreciating what we have, rather than constantly seeking more or dwelling on what’s lacking, we can cultivate a more fulfilling and optimistic outlook on life.
Research has shown that practicing gratitude can have profound effects on one’s mental health, including increased happiness, reduced depression, and improved relationships. (If you want to dive way deeper into the neuroscience of gratitude here is an article from Positive Psychology’s Website). So, now that we understand the definition of gratitude how to we actually put this into practice?
Morning Mantra
First off, consider starting a gratitude journal. Now, before you roll your eyes, hear me out. This practice isn’t about writing essays or penning a novel. Simply jot down three things you’re grateful for each morning. These can range from profound blessings like the love of your family to simple pleasures like relaxing with that first cup of coffee. It’s about recognizing and appreciating the joy in the small things, which in turn sets a positive tone for the rest of your day. Engaging in this daily ritual can help shift your focus from what’s lacking, to the abundance that surrounds you, fostering a sense of contentment and well-being.
Waking Up On the Right Side of the Bed
Let’s Discuss Some of the Most Common Morning Pitfalls That Can Ruin Your Entire Day
- Hitting the Snooze Button: Repeatedly hitting the snooze button can disrupt your sleep cycle and leave you feeling groggy and irritable.
- Skipping Breakfast: Skipping the first meal of the day can lead to low energy levels and poor concentration.
- Checking Social Media or Emails First Thing: Immediately checking your phone can lead to stress and anxiety, as you’re instantly bombarded with information and potential stressors.
- Rushing Through the Morning: Not allowing enough time to get ready can create a sense of panic and stress, setting a negative tone for the day.
- Neglecting Hydration: Failing to drink water in the morning can lead to dehydration, affecting your mood and cognitive function.
- Skipping Exercise: Missing out on morning physical activity can result in lower energy levels and a decrease in mood-boosting endorphins.
- Focusing on Negativity: Dwelling on negative thoughts or stressors first thing in the morning can set a pessimistic tone for the day.
- Ignoring Self-Care: Neglecting personal grooming or self-care routines can impact your self-esteem and confidence.
- Overloading the To-Do List: Starting the day with an overwhelming list of tasks can lead to anxiety and a feeling of defeat.
- Neglecting Mindfulness: Not taking a few moments for meditation, deep breathing, or gratitude practices can result in a lack of focus and presence throughout the day.
By being aware of these pitfalls and making conscious efforts to avoid them, you can create a more positive and productive morning routine.
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We want to incorporate rituals that enhance gratitude. Five minutes of thinking about what you’re thankful for can make the difference between embracing the day and wanting to throw your alarm clock out the window. Now moving on to what are great ideas for your new Gratitude Journey!
Here’s a List of Ideas to Create a Healthy Morning Routine Centered Around Gratitude
- Wake Up Gently: Start your day with a gentle alarm tone or natural light to wake up in a calm state.
- Express Gratitude: Before getting out of bed, take a moment to think of three things you’re grateful for. This sets a positive tone for the day.
- Morning Meditation: Spend a few minutes reading something positive, focusing on gratitude or a positive affirmation.
- Gratitude Journal: Write down what you’re thankful for in your gratitude journal. It could be big achievements or simple joys.
- Positive Affirmations: Repeat positive affirmations to yourself.
- Nature Connection: If possible, step outside for a few minutes to connect with nature and express gratitude for the natural world.
- Healthy Breakfast: Enjoy a nutritious breakfast, taking a moment to be thankful for the nourishment.
- Gratitude Walk: Take a short walk, focusing on the things you see, hear, and feel that you are grateful for.
- Send a Gratitude Message: Send a message to someone you’re thankful for, expressing your appreciation.
- Visualize Your Day: Spend a few minutes visualizing your day ahead, focusing on positive outcomes and things you’re looking forward to.
- Set Intentions: Set intentions for the day, focusing on how you can spread gratitude and positivity.
Incorporating these practices into your morning routine can help cultivate a sense of gratitude and well-being, setting a positive tone for the rest of your day.
Real-Life Scenarios
Imagine this: You spill your coffee, and instead of cursing the coffee gods, you laugh it off, thankful for the quick reflexes that saved your laptop. By starting the day with gratitude, you can create a more positive and fulfilling morning experience, setting a tone of optimism and appreciation that leads to a surprisingly delightful day.
The Power of Exactitude: Your Evening Routine
Exactitude ~ Sounds like something a Victorian schoolmaster would be fond of, right? But here’s the deal: ending your day by reviewing what you’ve accomplished and setting clear intentions for tomorrow can actually help you sleep better. It’s like giving your brain permission to rest because you’ve got a plan.
Let’s look at the definition of EXACTITUDE: Exactitude is a term used to describe the quality of being precise and accurate. In the context of personal productivity and self-improvement, it means setting clear and specific goals and following through on them with a high degree of precision. It involves organizing one’s time and resources efficiently, making informed decisions based on ACCURATE information, and striving for excellence in every endeavor.
I highlighted and capitalized “Accurate” because many of us tend to focus on what we didn’t accomplish at the end of the day. Ever found yourself lying in bed, staring at the ceiling, and regretting every life choice that led to this moment of insomnia? Yeah, me too… This is because we fail to practice exactitude in our thinking. And this can lead to becoming depressed about our day, our job, our family, and our whole lives!
I used to do this all the time. As soon as I lay down in bed my mind would start listing all the things I wanted to do or say and didn’t. Then it would start running down the lists of slights against me, and then the negative self-talk would start. WOW! No wonder I was depressed and felt tired all the time!
All of this adds to that “Negativity Spiral” and we are no longer making choices based on truth but on our inaccurate information. But when I started practicing exactitude, where I listed ONLY the things I had accomplished that day and was mixing that with gratitude, my whole mindset changed. And if I’m being completely honest most of the time when I was listing out the things I have accomplished I fell asleep before I was even finished! So let’s find out how to put this into practice!
Nightly Reflections
Take a few minutes each evening to reflect on your day. Don’t think about anything negative. Practice that same gratitude you started with in the morning. But this time list out all the things that went right today, things you accomplished, or that you finally got around to doing. You don’t need to write them out (Unless you want to) just lay there with your eyes closed and start with the morning and move through the day.
Don’t let yourself (Or your brain) side-track you into the “Negative Spiral.” We are working on breaking this habit so you will have to tell it to stop. If it starts up with its old patterns say gently to your brain, “Stop, we are only focusing on the positive things right now” and then continue listing out all the good things only. This practice not only fosters a sense of achievement but also helps in personal growth. Think of it as mental decluttering before bed, clearing the way for restful sleep.
Declutter Your Mind, Declutter Your Night
Speaking of decluttering…creating a physical and mental space conducive to sleep is crucial. This means maybe not binge-watching that new series until 2 AM or scrolling through your phone in bed. It’s about getting yourself prepared for a good night’s sleep and a productive tomorrow. If you want to dive deeper into planning your days effectively you can check out our other posts and downloads.
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Real-life scenarios
Here are several common pitfalls that can negatively impact sleep quality or mood when going to bed at night
- Using Electronic Devices: Engaging with smartphones, tablets, or laptops right before bed can interfere with sleep due to the blue light emitted by these devices, which can disrupt the body’s natural sleep-wake cycle.
- Consuming Caffeine or Alcohol: Drinking beverages containing caffeine or alcohol close to bedtime can hinder your ability to fall asleep and affect sleep quality. Caffeine is a stimulant, while alcohol may initially make you feel drowsy but can lead to disrupted sleep later in the night.
- Eating Heavy or Spicy Foods: Eating a large meal or spicy foods before bed can lead to discomfort, indigestion, or heartburn, which can make it difficult to fall asleep or stay asleep.
- Overthinking or Stressing: Going to bed with a mind full of worries or stress can keep you awake, as it’s challenging to relax and drift off to sleep when your mind is racing.
- Irregular Sleep Schedule: Inconsistent bedtimes and wake-up times can throw off your body’s internal clock, making it harder to fall asleep and wake up feeling refreshed.
- Lack of a Bedtime Routine: Not having a consistent bedtime routine can make it difficult for your body to recognize when it’s time to wind down and prepare for sleep.
- Sleeping in an Uncomfortable Environment: A bedroom that is too hot, too cold, too noisy, or too bright can disrupt sleep. It’s important to create a comfortable sleep environment that promotes relaxation.
- Exercising Too Close to Bedtime: While regular exercise is beneficial for sleep, engaging in vigorous exercise too close to bedtime can increase adrenaline levels and body temperature, making it harder to fall asleep.
- Napping Too Late in the Day: Taking long naps or napping late in the day can interfere with your ability to fall asleep at night.
- Ignoring Sleep Disorders: Ignoring symptoms of sleep disorders like insomnia, sleep apnea, or restless leg syndrome can lead to chronic sleep issues and negatively impact overall health.
By avoiding these common pitfalls and adopting healthy sleep habits, you can improve your sleep quality and wake up feeling more rested and in a better mood.
Now let’s move on to what we should be doing. Creating a bedtime routine centered around gratitude can be a wonderful way to end your day on a positive note and promote a good night’s sleep.
Here’s a List of Evening Ideas To Help You Create a Healthy Bedtime Routine Focused on Gratitude:
- Reflect on the Day: Spend a few minutes reflecting on the day and identify three things you are grateful for. These can be big or small moments, achievements, or even challenges that taught you something valuable.
- Gratitude Journal: Keep a journal by your bedside and write down the things you’re grateful for each night. This can help you focus on the positive aspects of your day and create a sense of contentment.
- Positive Affirmations: Repeat positive affirmations that reinforce gratitude and appreciation. For example, “I am thankful for my health, my family, and the opportunities that come my way.”
- Read Uplifting Content: Read a book or an article that is uplifting or focuses on positive aspects of life. Avoid heavy or stimulating content that might disrupt your sleep.
- Disconnect from Technology: Turn off electronic devices at least 30 minutes before bed to reduce exposure to blue light and create a calm environment.
- Relaxing Bedtime Routine: Incorporate activities that relax your body and mind, such as taking a warm bath, or listening to soothing music.
- Visualize Gratitude: As you lie in bed, close your eyes and visualize the things you’re grateful for. Imagine these positive feelings enveloping you and bringing you peace.
- Set a Positive Intention for the Next Day: Before you fall asleep, set a positive intention for the next day. This could be something like, “I will approach tomorrow with an open heart and a grateful mind.”
By incorporating these ideas into your evening routine, you can create a bedtime ritual that not only helps you wind down but also fills you with gratitude and positivity.
Bridging Morning Gratitude with Evening Exactitude
These practices aren’t just bookends to your day; Starting your day with gratitude and ending it with exactitude, form the foundation of a more positive and productive life. When you begin your day with a heart full of gratitude, you are more likely to find joy in the little things that make life beautiful. And when you end your day with exactitude, you give your mind the clarity and peace it needs to rest and rejuvenate, preparing you for another positive and productive day ahead.
Personal Anecdotes
I’ll admit, I was skeptical. My mornings used to start with a groan and a desperate need for caffeine, and my evenings… well, let’s just say I was intimately acquainted with every late-night show on TV. But when I began incorporating gratitude and exactitude into my routine, I noticed a shift. I was happier, more centered, and dare I say it… more productive.
Conclusion
Changing just two parts of your day might seem like a small step, but it can lead to significant improvements in your overall well-being. So, why not give it a try? Start tomorrow morning by noting three things you’re grateful for. And tonight, reflect on your day with a focus on exactitude. Feel free to share with us your experiences, your successes, and yes, even your humorous mishaps along the way.
I would love to hear from you. How are you implementing the above in your routine? Do you have any great ideas to help out others? If so please share them in the comments below.
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